Mother of the Bride/Groom Dresses: Finding the Perfect Fit (and Feeling Fabulous!)

Are you a mother of the bride or groom? If so, a huge congratulations to you and your family! This is such a joyous season – and, if we're all being honest,  a little nerve-wracking, too. As women, we tend to put immense pressure on ourselves when it comes to finding the right outfit for any occasion.  Now think about how that pressure intensifies with it being your child's wedding!

Let me take a moment to offer some unsolicited yet heartfelt advice...

The most important thing about your child’s wedding day attire is that you feel fantastic wearing it. This allows you to truly savor this special moment with your child, family, and friends.

Here's a quick list of things you absolutely DO NOT need to do:

• Attempt to lose weight

• Spend countless hours on an impossible quest for "the perfect dress"

• Force yourself into excruciatingly painful shoes

• Wear a color you hate just because you think you should

• Wear a hairstyle you don't feel comfortable with

• Squeeze into shapewear in an attempt to appear smaller

Your goal? To feel beautiful and confident. To look like yourself, but a slightly more elevated version for this momentous day.

So, what DO you need to do?

• Trust your instincts. You know what you like!

• Get your dress tailored. A few nips and tucks can make all the difference.

• Opt for shoes you can comfortably dance in. You'll be celebrating!

• Try everything on beforehand. Avoid day-of wardrobe malfunctions.

• Choose smoothing undergarments that support you. No need to restrict yourself.

How to Put Together Your Mother of the Bride/Groom Look

1. Make a checklist. What essential items do you need?

2. Find inspiration. Pinterest boards and magazines are a great start.

3. Be honest about your taste. Don't force yourself to like something trendy if it's just not you.

4. Take a no-pressure shopping trip. Explore styles and options without the intent to purchase immediately.

5. Bring a trusted friend or family member. Get a supportive second opinion.

6. Pay attention to FEELINGS. How does the dress make you feel?

7. Commit and stop comparison shopping. Once you find your dress, block out the noise. Get it tailored to perfection and start imagining it with your shoes, jewelry, hair, and makeup.

Mother of the Bride/Groom Dresses

Now that you've gotten some valuable advice on the mindset for shopping, let me take the guesswork out of the process. I've rounded up a few of my favorite mother of the bride/groom dresses that cater to different styles and preferences. Remember, confidence is always the best accessory, but a dress that fits well and makes you feel amazing certainly helps!

Under $500

$500 - $1,000

$1,000 - $2,000

Over $2,000

I hope this selection provides you with a solid starting point – or even better, helps you find "the one"! Remember to focus on how the dress makes you feel, get it tailored, and above all, enjoy this milestone with your beautiful family. Your smile and your presence will be the most important part of your wedding day look.